“I know you’ve heard the phrase, “I’ve never been in a habit of keeping someone that doesn’t want to be kept.” Well, likewise…I’ve never been in a habit of believing a lie even when you say it’s the truth. Make it make sense to me! If you fail in your attempt….hey, keep working on it. Eventually you’ll find someone who may believe the lies you’re feeding them, but I’m like a stubborn baby…you’ll have to force feed it to me and even then – if I don’t like it guess what…I’m not swallowing it!
You make things complicated when they don’t have to be. You complicate the problem by multiplying a positive situation with negative intentions. But that’s okay. Maybe math like “Relationships” wasn’t your strongest subject. Good thing…the course doesn’t stop after college. You have your entire life to learn it and possibly pass it. However, the “Relationships” you develop when you’re younger have a direct influence on the “Relationships” you have when you’re older. So, in hindsight, if you weren’t good at it then…that would explain why you’re failing at it now.
I’m a little over analytical too ya know? I will think the stars out of the sky…replaying over and over in my head words formed and spoken, recalling dates and times, placing them all in chronological order according to what YOU said took place. Your first mistake…never forget what you say. It may come back to haunt you.
The thing that I don’t get is this…why do men feel they gotta hide the other chics? Don’t you know we’ve already done our research and our findings are this….they do exist and you ain’t shit! But we’ll give you a chance to dig yourself a deeper ditch as we plan our Diary of a Mad Black Woman revenge or David Copperfield exit.
It’s such a sad thing when you’re “kicking it” with someone who has no intentions of ever being with you but they don’t communicate this. Actions and words don’t mix. But I’ve been told that even the best communicators have issues with communication…..ummm, well I said that to say this… They will drag you along for the ride whether or not you agree to it because at this point…feelings have already manifested..time invested. You get hurt and the pain inflicted on you, you carry to the next relationship and end up hurting the person you’re with and not because they deserved it, but because they were the byproduct of the screwed up problem you were placed in. But you know the best thing about a problem is…there’s always a solution.”
“You should never become a snake unless you like shedding your skin and getting your head chopped off.”
Wow…interesting.
Speak the truth...I love this Neicey!
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